• Source is this exceptional article: “Do Quests, Not Goals” by David Cain:
    • We usually call these optional aspirations goals, but doing so immediately introduces a few problems that make them less likely to happen.

      The first problem is that goals are things you expect to do later, because they aren’t strictly necessary, and you’re currently busy with the to-do list stuff. You’ll do them, soon, but not quite yet. There must first be a lull in the noise and stress of normal life, in order to make goal-achieving feasible.
  • Carolin Dweck describes in her book “Growth Mindset” how limiting oneself has a big influence on ones life. But being aware of the concept does not change who you are. This is done by acting in the world, going on quests.